Supercore

You know in the movies when a car passes someone standing on the street and splashes the dirt and grime that builds up in puddles on the shoulder all over the poor fool caught waiting outside in a rainstorm? If you’ve seen it happen in the movies, have you witnessed it in real life- or even better- have you ever been that sorry sap drenched on the street?

I sure have.

It must bring some sort of bizarre good luck, like a bird pooping on your head, because who does that sort of thing really happen to? Me. Lucky me.

Back in February, I was caught in a hailstorm and new to the “streets,” when a car passed by and unexpectedly forced me to ice a knee injury that I had been ignoring for far too long. Thank you, universe. Soaking wet, I continued on my journey to the G train. Next stop, Brooklyn. This night ended with my very first bull-riding experience, and I received the honor of the keys to a bar after helping one of its tenders make snowballs. I’m getting off track. The point is, the beginning might have been hardcore crazy, the ending even crazier, but the middle of the night, now that was Supercore.

I’ve been talking about this Supercore salmon for months. Finally, I returned to that gem of a cafe on Bedford Ave in Brooklyn. The weather has since warmed up, and the patio area is now open. As if this place had any room for improvement, stepping through that back door onto a wooden patio flanked with strung lights and candles on a warm night transports you straight to vacation mode. A vacation with dogs peaking their excited little heads through holes in the wooden fence. I should mention next door is a fantastic bar called Lucky Dog. A dog friendly bar. My kind of bar. A bar situated right next to my kind of salmon. I have actually met Lucky, the dog, in person. The owner has two dogs. I couldn’t tell you the other dog’s name, but I refer to him as Shadow. He’s a black dog so it fits, especially since he is living in Lucky’s shadow. If I ever open my own dog friendly joint, I will name it “Shadow of Sam” because that beautiful unknown dog, Shadow, deserves his fake name immortalized somewhere. It’s only fair. If you’re ever hungover and find yourself in the Bedford Ave neighborhood, drop in to Lucky Dog for a Bloody Mary. It comes with pickled Okra, and a hair of the dog.

Then go next door for some Supercore salmon.

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Supercore is a Japanese café that is incredibly affordable and even more incredibly delicious. Their Miso Salmon- their miso salmon- their miso salmon made me want to change my last name. I’d put a ring on it. Actually, I’d rather change my first name to Miso… or make it a prefix: Miso Stephanie. “I am so Stephanie,” I would respond.

The atmosphere of Supercore is casual, the Japanese tapas are easily shared, and the drinks are heavenly. Try a carafe of Sake Mimosa or their Sake Mojito. Post lunch or dinner, try one of their Matcha Lattes.

This place makes me happy in the truest sense. Because after all happiness is, according to Miso James Altucher,

“Happiness. We never learn [through formal education] how it’s a combination of the food we eat, our health, our ability to have sound emotional relationships, our ability to find something bigger than ourselves and our egos to give up our spiritual virginity to.”

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Happiness is Supercore. Locations in Brooklyn and Tokyo.

305 Bedford Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11211

718-302-1629

Mon‐Sat: 11am‐1am

Sunday: 11am‐12am

About these ads

LF

Ever wonder what the inside of Lindsay Lohan’s closet looks like? No? Understandable.

Then instead imagine any girl with no sense of the hard earned dollar, with complete disregard for cleanliness, more apt to choose trendy over quality items; a girl with enough money for an absurd amount of chic shoes, clothes, and accessories, but not quite enough money to pay someone to pick up after her- and picture that girl’s closet…

Welcome to LF.

While spending the day shopping in Soho, we drooled passed Armani Prive, Chanel, Wink, and LV for a store that beckoned us with a chaotic rainbow of crops, studs, floral and fridge, funky shoes strewn about, and neon plastic see-through clutches straight out of every girl’s fantasy world. Don’t be fooled by the Forever 21- budget friendly vibe that the disorderly storefront alludes to. Shit’s expensive. Not Chanel expensive, but pricey enough that you’d expect a little more care than what was given to the in-store items in haphazard piles. Gotta respect the Rayon. After all, if I’m going to be spending a fair amount on a top or dress or shoes, they will come home with me in prime condition… because if anyone is going to trash my polyester, it’s going to be me, not the over-privileged college student scouring the racks with her dad’s credit card.

Once you adjust to the overwhelming air of spoiled bratty entitlement that surrounds you in this store, right there on the horizon you can pick yourself up an array of adorably stylish clothes. Here are some of this LA-based boutique’s looks of the week:

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As a rule of thumb, I pick which stores I like by their choice in music. LF played Spice Girls and Backstreet Boys.

SOLD.

Shops in LA, NYC, Miami, Dallas, and Boston.

LF Soho: 149 Spring Street, New York, NY 10012. 212.966.5889

Three Salty Shindigs and Pick Up Lines

My roommate, better known as the salty one due to her poor attitude and inability to get along with other people, just had a very special day… well three, to be specific, days of birthday celebrating. This works out wonderfully for you, because now you get three examples of NYC staples, and I’ll throw in the ultimate pick up line, or three, for good measure.

Marquee, NYC

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Since moving to NYC, I’ve had a few “only in NY” moments, but this birthday takes the cake. We met the lady in red at Dream downtown for a quick drink. If you haven’t read about Dream, you can do so in this post. Continually as indulgent as I had remembered. Once it was time for our princess’s chariot to turn into a pumpkin, we headed to Marquee. If you are looking for a good party in New York, Marquee is a nice place to start. Or end. Or anything. Lil Jon will be there tomorrow. Here’s a full list of upcoming DJs. Take your pick, wear your best, highest, dancing shoes, and I promise you won’t be disappointed…

The Standard

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The next stop on the birthday express was happy hour. There may or may not have been a few minutes of sleep and a full day of work in between. In any case, we headed to a beer garden on a gorgeous day. Correction we headed to the “Biergarten.”  As their site describes, ‘under the canopy of The High Line, The Standard Biergarten serves traditional German fare by way of Chef Kurt Gutenbrunner. Open air in the summer, glass enclosed in the winter, there’s sausages, pretzels, beer and ping pong all year long.’ This place was packed and very well run. Buy tickets from a ticket booth to use for either beer or food. Choose from three amazing draft beers: light, dark, or wheat. Simple concept, ingeniously successful. It’s a relaxed atmosphere with a broad range of people. From this experience, I unintentionally learned a valuable tool for a single girl in NYC… the ultimate pick up line. Because I strongly believe every person should enjoy a solid, pathetic attempt at speaking to a complete stranger, I will happily share.

The Ultimate Pick Up Line(s)

All good things come in threes, especially in this post, and lord knows I love a good pick up line so I’ll give you three:

I once asked the most handsome man I’ve ever seen in real life if it hurt when he fell from heaven. Classic, but effective. I’ve fallen to the floor and explained to my chivalrous helper that I just went weak at the knees (I haven’t had the proper opportunity for that one yet, but soon I am sure it will happen). However, this one, that happened organically that night, has to be my favorite. Carry a trick lighter. Yes, that is right. When the unfortunate bait asks you for a light, share your “broken” lighter with him. His pride will not allow him to return the lighter and give up. At this point, you own him. “Where are you from?” “Come here often?” “Which beer are you drinking?” Okay, so this scenario happened completely by accident, but it is GOLD.

Sullivan Room

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I fell in love with this place the instant I walked in for the first time. Be it house, DJ, or live bands…‘Consistency with a quality sound, a joyful vibe, people who come to dance and artists who love being close to their fans, Propaganda Music Bureau is here to stage, orchestrate and spread that conception.’ Wear combat boots, or flats, just be comfortable and ready to dance. The final day of my roomie’s celebrating ended with a show at Sullivan room. Higher Animals opened for Gandolf Murphy and the Slambovian Circus of Dreams. Here is a list of Gandolf’s upcoming shows. Here is a post about both bands. Here is a sample of Gandolf’s music; and of Higher Animals music. And finally, here is a list of Higher Animals upcoming shows. Get out there and indulge in true artistry. Few things make me happier than great, natural, music, and if you can’t tell, I adore seeing both of these bands play their hearts out.

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The ideal beginning to a new year in the life of my very best friend. Her nickname may be Salty, but she is anything but “Salty.” She unknowingly teaches me each day to have an open mind, open heart, and let life come to you in the beautiful way that it always does. I couldn’t ask for a better friend, roommate, soul sister, and hysterical spirit in my life. Love her to bits.

How J Lo Got That Booty… & Other Subway Secrets

Beyond the smell of urine, the claustrophobic rush hours, the homeless beggars, and occasional freak shows, sits a stunning NYC institution… the subway.

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I got rid of my car shortly after moving and now use the subway every. single. day. I actually, for the most part, prefer it. The subways are filled with a beautiful mix of people, a whole community riding 1,2,3-4,5,6-F-N,Q,R-S up, down, express, or local. Ridding myself of that car was certainly bittersweet because few things in life are better than a good, long road trip. A car ride is essentially a designated time and place to practice dance moves and sultry singing skills. I thought, for sure, I would miss that. I don’t (and neither does anyone who’s ever witnessed those moments). However, the subways offer plenty of reasons not to miss my own set of wheels…

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Top 5 Reasons the NYC Subways Are Better Than Driving:

1)      Good Samaritans.

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One thing that brings a smile to anyone’s face is witnessing someone do a good deed for a complete stranger, or doing one yourself. On the subway, you’ll often see strangers leading the blind, adults getting out of seats for children or their poor parents toting around more bags than a Scottish pipe band, strangers helping struggling mothers lift strollers from the platform up the endless flights of stairs, and strangers assisting disabled. I have seen at least one of these moments almost every day, and it makes me smile each time.

2)      Entertainment.

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So on one of my rides the overhead announcement instructed passengers not to give money to beggars, in order to keep our subways free from hustling hasslers. I’m paraphrasing here but it said something to the effect of “Do not feed the wild animals.” I do not endorse that message one bit. Some, yes, please go away. But a lot of the musicians and dancers are really very talented. Side note: I have an Oscar worthy screenplay written in my mind that was formed on one hysterical subway ride. It began with a conspiracy theory about these talented “homeless” people and whom they report to *eh-hem* Splinter, but the details of this underground boot camp will make me a thousandaire, so I digress… Many of the subway beggars are really great at what they do. I heard the best freestyle of my life on the 1. He called himself a poet, and was not a fan of the direction hip-hop has gone. I can respect that, homie. If it was made in or around the 90’s, it’s very likely on my iPod. Clearly, he caught my attention with this approach and did not disappoint. A poet he was; every line spoke right to me. Richard Branson needs to get out of the sky, I wanted to sign that guy on the spot.

3)      Quiet Time.

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No cell service means no calls, no texts, no emails (except to catch up on reading them), no annoying phone conversations from the loud talker to your right. It also offers excellent excuses: “Oh you couldn’t get a hold of me? I must have been on the subway.” Or “I have to run, I’ve got to catch my train.” Some lines are getting service and WiFi, for which I have mixed emotions. I was telling my lovely roomie how I was not thrilled about cell service entering the subways on the way to meet our third half in Times Sq. We needed to find each other underground, and we would still be searching had we not entered a hot spot. The universe shut me up real quick, proving subway cell service can be incredibly useful… I just pray for restaurant-style, movie theatre type of respect from my co-riders. Pretty please and thank you.

If you are a reader who suffers from FOMO, here is the list of stations with service and others that will soon have it.

4)      Finding Kind Eyes.

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The subways are prime people watching grounds. You have no choice; the seats are set up for it. You can easily scan the room for the “kind” eyes, the dreaded faded eyes, or even worse, the angry eyes.  I am admittedly unobservant, somewhat blind, and generally, in my own world, so it may be surprising to hear that my first impression of someone is usually based on their eyes. You can tell a lot about a person by their eyes and on the subways you can scan the room pretty easily without seeming like a creep, or even if you do seem like a creep, no one would bat an eyelid to it.

5)      Natural StairMaster

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She didn’t get it from her momma, she got it ‘On The 6.’ Yes, ride the subway for a week and you too will learn how J Lo got that booty, and it will make complete sense that she dedicated a whole album to it. The subway stairs are intense, especially when running late or riding multiple trains, multiple times a day. So take the subway, and your glutes will soon thank you.

You can’t talk about NYC’s underground without bringing up Grand Central, who turned 100 this year.  Here is a wonderful poem, I first read on the subway, that beautifully describes its significance:

The City orbits around eight million centers of the Universe.

And turns around the golden clock at the still point of this place.

Lift up your eyes from the moving hive and you will see time circling under a vault of stars and know just when and where you are.

Billy Collins, 1941

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Vive la Crepe

I have some good news and some bad news.

Because I’m a sucker for happy endings, we will start with the bad.

Warmer months, eh hem shorts and bikinis, are approaching and I’ve just become a huge fan of an irresistibly fantastic creperie. To make things worse these warm, buttery, delicate shells funnel a combination of scrumptious flavors right down to the ultimate bite, found at the very tip, the final bite, essentially forcing you to finish every last drop of decadence. And to add insult to injury, that last bite, where all of the scrumptious flavors mix and mingle, creates a party in your mouth so major you won’t even feel guilty about the entire gigantic serving you just consumed.

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And for the good news… There are four conveniently located shops throughout the city.

If you stop in to their Union Sq location like me, grab a seat on their “benchair.”

You’ll know it when you see it.

Vive la Crepe

Hours: Monday-Saturday 8 am – midnight / Sunday 9 am – midnight

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SPRING STREET
51 Spring street
New York, NY 10012

UNION SQUARE
114 Universiry place
New York, NY 10003

BLEECKER
300 Bleecker street
New York, NY 10014

UPPER WEST
189 Columbus Avenue
New York, NY 10023

City of Dreams

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A new chapter, new apartment, new job, and new city:

New York City.

Now, the upstate New Yorker

Here’s what I fell in love with:

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Can you blame me?

A friend recently told me that my courage has inspired him to pursue a certain dream of his. It was the biggest compliment I have gotten in a long time, if not ever. So if by chance others are out there questioning a big decision to pursue their passion,

Simply said: Do it.

Longly said:

Follow your heart is easy to say but can be hard to do in the real world plagued with expenses, responsibilities, careers, and endless choices. How do you know that you are following the right path? Well, define right and wrong. I believe that if you are pursuing your passions and trying to better yourself everything else will fall into place, and anyone that cares about you will be supportive. When it comes to listening to your deepest desires, it can be the actual knowing what they are that is the hardest part; find that inner child. The one who wanted to walk on the moon, become president, travel around the world in a hot air balloon. That little kid knew it was possible, and so should you.

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I’ll admit that you could say some of my decisions were somewhat reckless. Some of my favorite questions were

what are you going to do about _____(fill in rent, dog, job, car, etc.)?

Or

when will you have_____ (fill in job, apartment, dog, plan, etc)?

Yes, it came from a place of love and concern, but I had no answers for anyone, including myself. I was scared too, taking everything one day at a time. Worrying about things you cannot control steals the joy out of life. Yes, I left my secure job that I was excelling at, the people I loved, and everything that I was comfortable with for the unknown.

Call it crazy or call it drive. I yearned for a change, for new experiences, for the opportunities that could only be found in the greatest city on earth. So, I jumped in. I moved with no job. With no connections. With no clear plan as to how I would pay my bills. But that’s okay, because I had my best friends enjoying the same chaotic journey with me.

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Now for the stress. There are two kinds of stress: good stress and bad stress. The good kind is what keeps you up at night, driving you to figure out how to get from point a to b to z and back again. I have never been one to be driven by money. I was once told that if you figure out what you love, and pursue it whole-heartedly, the money will follow. That’s the mantra.

I may have lived out of a suitcase for a bit.. But I wouldn’t change a thing.
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I once had a dream of becoming a beautiful poet, but upon an unfortunate series of events some of those dreams dashed and divided like a million stars in the night sky that I wished on over and over again, sparkling and broken.
But I didn’t really mind because I knew that it takes getting everything you ever wanted, and then losing it to know what true freedom is.
When the people I used to know found out what I had been doing, how I’d been living, they asked me why – but there’s no use in talking to people who have home.
They have no idea what it’s like to seek safety in other people – for home to be wherever you lay your head.
I was always an unusual girl.
My mother told me I had a chameleon soul, no moral compass pointing due north, no fixed personality; just an inner indecisiveness that was as wide and as wavering as the ocean…
And if I said I didn’t plan for it to turn out this way I’d be lying…
I belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone.
Who had nothing, who wanted everything, with a fire for every experience and an obsession for freedom that terrified me to the point that I couldn’t even talk about it, and pushed me to a nomadic point of madness that both dazzled and dizzied me.

Every night I used to pray that I’d find my people, and finally I did on the open road.
We had nothing to lose, nothing to gain, nothing we desired anymore, except to make our lives into a work of art.
Live fast. Die young. Be wild. And have fun.
I believe in the country America used to be.
I believe in the person I want to become.
I believe in the freedom of the open road.
And my motto is the same as ever:
“I believe in the kindness of strangers. And when I’m at war with myself I ride, I just ride.”
Who are you?
Are you in touch with all of your darkest fantasies?
Have you created a life for yourself where you can experience them?
I have. I am {exploitive} crazy.
But I am free.

-Lana Del Rey, Ride

Tank’s Bachelorette

An epic era is ending. Tank, nickname stemming from Frank the Tank, our very own Barbie, the ultimate MILF, is getting married.

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Cue the grand celebration to wrap up her wild ways.

Atlantic City was our chosen victim.

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Revel offered all the necessities; style, entertainment, and of course the essential great food and drinks.

For dinner we chose a variety of spanish Tapas and shared meals at Amada in Revel. Amada is owned by Iron Chef Jose Garces. When our server informed us that he owned the exquisite eatery and happened to be at dinner with family and friends that very same night, our bride-to-be just had to meet him. Not only is he exceptionally talented, but was so genuinely nice. It completed our meal and was such a dream come true. He even encouraged a new endeavor in the making.

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Besides meeting the chef, major stand outs in the impressive meal were Alcachofas a la Parmesana, parmesan artichokes; and the Alcachofas y Setas, flatbread topped with Confit Artichoke, Wild Mushrooms, Black Truffles, and Manchego.

As if the bride didn’t bring enough hotness to the night, our drink of choice was the Broken Hugs, made with tequila, basil, grapefruit, and chili- just enough spice to satisfy. It became the perfect grown up version of margarita and nacho nights, our nostalgic girls’ night tradition.

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We then headed to HQ to wrap things up. Music, dancing, and best friends, throw in some diamond sandals and go go dancers wearing crazy horned Viking wigs, just to scare her, and it’s a little closer to her level.

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Throw in a ‘buck wild’ cake, courtesy of the creative Miss Amanda, and now you’re on Barbie bride’s level.

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A disposable card, handwritten on a napkin, for a night to never be remembered… With memories we’ll never forget.

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My partner in crime for life.

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Beacon

I ventured to Brooklyn to get to Beacon last week. These things happen in this small world.

Let the trance begin.

Beacon, the band not city, played a show at the Glasslands in Williamsburg and it was obvious by the speed in which tickets sold out that they would be well worth the chilly wait at the door.

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Their music is so current, if you have the chance to catch one of their shows… Do it now.

They will blow up.

Indie, electronic, they describe their music as a combination of deep south bass music and ambient pop melodies, with R&B tinged vocals that accompany warm arpeggiated synthesizers.

You can find them on iTunes or sample and buy their latest EP here.

Follow them on twitter to see when and where you can get entranced by Beacon live.

And if you’re at Glasslands, be sure to ask the eye-candy bartender three meaningful questions. 😉

Cold Brew

I wear my sunglasses at night. I drink cold coffee in winter.

Fortunately, only one of those statements is true.

Perhaps this post, a love letter to my favorite java joint in Wappingers sent last Valentine’s Day, revealed that my relationship with coffee is not the norm.

The first step is admitting it.

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On a fine day in Queens I found myself habitually sipping some iced Jet Fuel at Sweet Leaf in Long Island City on a cautiously old table. If you’re not a fan of coffee but are in the neighborhood, stop in to try their magical yogurt parfait. This stuff turns from Greek yogurt, fresh strawberries, and granola into apple crisp right in your mouth. There are no words. Now for my fellow caffeine fanatics, the Jet Fuel, cold brewed coffee with chicory and maple syrup, and their VooDoo Child, Vietnamese style cold brew, are the stuff of legends. I could get used to that place, and some good strong cold brews.

Aching to be recreated, I happily accepted the cold brew challenge.

Still waiting for that challenge.

Like a good relationship, this brew’s beauty is in its simplicity; in its effortlessness.

Here is what you need (filter not pictured):

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For the type of coffee grinds, use what you have. I actually went out of my way, slightly, to venture into the new Aldi on Route 9 in Wappingers for my grinds. Epic fail. It’s like the Big Lots of grocery shopping, which is great for certain things. Fine coffee is just not one of them.

Reading up on this process a little bit, I learned that the quality of coffee is less important. You can also use a variety of types from finely ground to coarsely ground beans. With cold brew, you’re not going to get the earthy, robust, distinguishable flavors that you get when coffee is freshly ground and brewed at its optimum 195-205 degrees F. It yields a smoother and less bitter product, making it ideal for iced creations and can keep up to a week in the fridge.

For the brew, my ratio is 3:1 water to grinds. Adjust ratio to your taste. Typically, you’ll want to aim for 4:1. Obviously, I like rich and strong. Raise your hand if you don’t. Higher. I still don’t see it.

For the method, simply mix your grinds with room temperature water and let it sit for at least 4 hours and up to 24 hours, covered and kept out at room temp. Then strain the grinds from the coffee concentrate using a filter of your choice, cheese cloth, or a French press.

If you’re going for Vietnamese, or Thai style, add some sweetened condensed milk to a glass full of ice. Add your coffee concentrate and mix. Top with evaporated milk. Enjoy through a bold straw.

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That’s so Bangla.

For you St Patty’s Day aficionados out there already planning, this year start your holiday with a cold brew Irish coffee. Replace the water with Jameson, follow the method, and then add your milk or cream over ice. It may not quite be on par with the Buena Vista in San Fran, but it’s a fair start.

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Heartfelt Procrastinater-Friendly Valentine’s Day Ideas

I beg of you… whatever you do today, do not go to some cheesy Valentine’s Day dinner chock full of strawberries, champagne, and chocolate; that overpriced cliché meal is soooo pre-recession.

Get with the times and get thoughtful.

Now, if you’re like me, you haven’t gotten thoughtful until about, oh, say… NOW. Relax my fellow procrastinater. I got you.

Here are some of the finest Valentine’s Day ideas that you can arrange today, prior to the “but everyone else in my office got roses” speech.

For Her:

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Take her away. Book a trip, a show, whatever the destination may be, print a pic of the spot, itinerary, or agenda and throw that bad boy in her card. A gift you get to enjoy too. You’re welcome. Takes just a second to book, depending on how extravagant you want to get.

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Send her favorite lunch to the office. Roses are overdone, but if you know her favorite lunch spot or one that you both frequent together, and they deliver, give them a ring- all you need is a half an hour’s notice. (Hint: if you know the name of your significant other’s company, you can probably Google the address, and if you don’t remember where she works, your mom does… so no excuses.)

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Of course she walks on water in your eyes, but what about snow? For the Hudson Valley resident, do a first together. Minnewaska State Park actually has a Valentine’s Day snowshoeing tour for you adventurous love birds. Because you never forget your first anything.

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Buy her local flowers. Yes, it is last second. Lucky for you the best, freshest, most elaborate bouquets are going to be found at your local florist, wherever you live. If your near Newburgh, Jenny’s  is impeccable.

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Write her a love letter. Best. Gift. Ever. Brownie points if it’s completely out of character. If you gush over her all too often, it will be appreciated, but you might want to follow it with some diamonds.

For Him:

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For the competitive couple, get him some personalized sneakers. NIKEiDs are an amazing gift, but the whole point is you want to make them yourself. Buy a gift card for him and another for yourself and design your sneakers together to see who makes the better pair. Bonus: on Nike’s website you can actually get gift cards by email, so you don’t even have to head to the store.

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For the kid at heart, play adult hide and seek. Text him, email, leave little love notes- whatever your MO- throughout the day, giving him sneaky little hints as to where you will meet that evening and what you’ll do once you get there. This can get as racy or innocent as you desire. No one’s judging, it’s Valentine’s Day… your neighbor has edible undies on right about now.

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Make his favorite dinner. And enjoy it while listening to a playlist you made just for him… unless his favorite song is something to the effect of “Bands a make her dance.” Then just stick to his favorite foods paired with his favorite booze.

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For the laid back man: Build a pillow fort, Netflix his favorite thriller, bust out the video games and order some pizza and wings. Have a low-key night, just the two of you cuddled up in sweats.

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Universally appreciated: Get naked, and bring beer.

Hallmark holiday or not, Valentine’s day is a chance to show the one that you adore, that they mean the world to you. We all get busy, it just happens. So as ridiculous as this holiday may seem, I hope that single or coupled up you take a moment to tell someone you care about how much they mean to you, and everyone feels the love today.

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Happy Valentine’s Day.